What do you talk about at Rush?

At "Rush" (sorority recruitment), you talk about yourself (hometown, major, classes, hobbies, summer fun, move-in) and ask members about their experiences (favorite memories, philanthropy, campus life) to find common ground, focusing on being authentic and showing genuine interest rather than small talk or discussing "the five Bs" (boys, booze, bible, ballots, bucks). Conversations are about getting to know each other, finding shared passions, and seeing if the sorority feels like a good fit, often branching into stories about family, goals, TV shows, or travel.

What questions do they ask at Rush?

Questions Sorority Members May Ask You:

• Where are you from? What's your hometown?
• What dorm are you in?
• What classes are you taking?
• Do you have a major already?
• Did you have a fun summer? ...
• How are you enjoying rush/recruitment?
• Have you met your roommate yet? ...
• How are you enjoying your first week of school so far?

What are the 4 B's of rush?

What should I not talk about during sorority recruitment? Avoid the 4 B's: booze, boys, bucks, and beliefs. These topics can lead to awkward moments or misunderstandings that distract from what really matters, your values, interests, and potential as a sister.

What not to talk about during rush?

The Five B's of Rush are Boys, Ballots, Booze, Bible, and Bucks. These represent touchy subjects you should avoid bringing up during your conversations.

What do you do at Rush for sorority?

Rounds. Generally, most sororities do recruitment in four rounds: open house, house tours, skit/philanthropy, and preference. Some sororities may only have three rounds if the sorority doesn't have a house.

QUESTIONS DURING RUSH: what to ask & what you'll be asked

Do sororities pick based on looks?

Yes, looks can play a role in sorority recruitment, but it's usually alongside other factors like personality, grades, and connections, with some chapters focusing more on traditional aesthetics (sometimes called the ""look"") while others, often newer ones or those under national pressure, aim for more diversity, though unfair biases, including appearance-based ones, still exist. While official recruitment emphasizes values, character, and good conversations, some individual members or chapters still prioritize outward appearance, leading to pressure on potential new members (PNMs) to fit a certain mold, with some even using coded language for physical traits. 

Are boyfriends allowed in sorority houses?

Boyfriends are generally not allowed to stay overnight in sorority houses, and often have restricted access to upper floors or specific public areas due to safety, comfort, and tradition, though rules vary by chapter, with many having curfews for male guests and some allowing them in certain common spaces. While national guidelines often prohibit alcohol and overnight guests, local chapter rules dictate specifics, with many enforcing "no boys upstairs" policies for privacy and security, though members sometimes bend these rules informally.
 

What to ask PNMs during rush?

Questions to ask PNMs on Day 1 of Recruitment

• What's your major? ...
• Where are you from? ...
• What did you do this [summer/winter/spring] break? ...
• Do you have any hobbies or interests you're passionate about? ...
• What's your favorite thing about [the name of your school]? ...
• Tell us something interesting about yourself.

What do people do during rush?

Rushing is usually at the beginning of a new semester, during the first few weeks of school. This process is designed to introduce students to other members, educate them on values and traditions, and provide events where they can engage and experience what Greek life is all about.

What are the 5 B's of Sorority Rush?

Boys, Bible, Ballots, Booze, Bucks.

What is the most elite sorority?

Prestigious sororities often include Kappa Kappa Gamma, Alpha Phi, Delta Gamma, Chi Omega, Delta Delta Delta, Alpha Delta Pi, Kappa Alpha Theta, and Alpha Chi Omega, known for strong national presence, high recruitment, and notable alumnae, though "prestige" varies by campus and individual values, with groups like Alpha Kappa Alpha (AKA) and Delta Sigma Theta (DST) holding immense historical significance and community impact. 

How to impress a sorority during rush?

Don't try to be someone you're not. Sorority sisters are looking for new members who are confident, authentic, and genuine. Ask thoughtful questions: Sorority recruitment is a two-way street. While the sorority sisters are getting to know you, you should also be getting to know them.

What sorority is Kim Kardashian in?

Explore Kim Kardashian's sorority life and kitchen vibes. Get insights into rituals and community at Alpha Phi.

Can I wear jeans to rush?

Also, potential new members might be given a designated tee to wear. If this is you, don't freak out! Just pair your tee with some versatile denim jeans or shorts, and sneakers for a cute, casual look.

What are top 5 behavioral interview questions?

The top 5 behavioral interview questions focus on pressure/challenges, conflict, teamwork, failure/mistakes, and leadership/initiative, aiming to reveal your past actions to predict future performance, often using the "Tell me about a time..." format to assess problem-solving, adaptability, and interpersonal skills using the STAR method (Situation, Task, Action, Result). Key questions include handling pressure, resolving conflicts, working in teams, learning from failure, and demonstrating leadership or initiative.
 

What are the 3 C's of interviewing?

The "3 C's of interviewing" vary slightly by context (candidate or interviewer), but commonly refer to Confidence, Competence, and Credibility/Character/Chemistry, focusing on a candidate's skills, trustworthiness, and fit. For interviewers, the focus shifts to Clarity, Confidence, and Control (or Connection) to effectively assess candidates, highlighting the need for clear expectations, confident delivery, and building rapport while managing the conversation. 

What not to say during sorority rush?

During sorority recruitment, avoid the "4 or 5 B's" (boys/dating, booze/drugs, bucks/money, beliefs/religion, ballots/politics) and trash-talking other chapters or Greek life, as these topics create awkwardness, distractions, or negative impressions; instead, focus on your values, academic interests, passions, and genuine connection to sisterhood to find a good fit. 

How do sororities pick girls?

The voting process for the sororities can vary depending on the campus and the sorority. Two main methods usually take place: Chapter Vote: A chapter vote is when everyone in the sorority has a say in potential new members. Your name will come up, and everyone will vote on whether or not to invite you back.

What do sororities look for in a girl?

The Panhellenic sorority recruitment experience is rooted in values – we call this “values-based recruitment.” This type of recruitment helps our organizations and members focus on our founding values and recruit women who understand and are committed to living out the values of our organizations.

What are the 5 B's to avoid during rush?

During sorority rush, avoid the "5 Bs": Boys, Booze, Beliefs (politics/religion), and Bucks (money), as these can be divisive or overly personal, focusing instead on shared interests, values, and positive experiences to build genuine connections. The common "B" topics are Boys, Booze, Beliefs (or Bible), Bucks, and sometimes Ballots (politics) or even a specific person (like "Bush").
 

What are good questions to ask sororities?

Here are some questions that you can ask during recruitment.

• What is your philanthropy?
• What events or activities do you do to support your philanthropy?
• What kinds of service do you do in the community?
• How often do you participate in or host a service activity?

What are good Q&A questions to ask?

Questions to ask to get to know someone FAQs

• What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?
• Do you enjoy what you do for a living?
• What's a book that you'd recommend?
• Are you a morning person or a night owl?
• What's your dream job?
• Do you have any pets?
• What's your favorite type of cuisine?
• Do you have any siblings?

What are the 5 B's of sorority?

"Avoid bringing up the five 'B Words': Boys, Ballots, Booze, Beliefs, and Bucks." Okay... this is a "yes and no" kind of thing. The "B Words" list—comprised of topics that PNMs should supposedly "never ever discuss" during recruitment week—has been circulating for years now.

Do sorority girls share bedrooms?

In many Greek houses, especially sorority houses, people share rooms and bathrooms with at least one other person, if not more. Living with a dozen friends can feel like a never ending slumber party, but it also means having very little privacy.

What is dirty bidding in a sorority?

Being promised a bid or being guaranteed that you will get invited back to another recruitment round. Recruiters are absolutely not allowed to say things like, “See you tomorrow” or “I can't wait to see you on bid day!” and there is a reason for that.